Matchmaking Beyond the Checklist

I know someone you should meet.

I’m Veronica Kaulinis, a New York City matchmaker working nationwide. I work with ambitious, relationship-minded people who are ready to meet the person they want to build a life with.

Veronica Kaulinis, matchmaker, in New York City

My approach

Through my network, experience, and deep understanding of human connection, I make introductions that go beyond a dating profile or checklist.

Seven years of coaching people through dating and relationships, facilitating workshops, and leading thousands of conversations about intimacy and connection has shaped how I approach matchmaking.

I want to understand you beyond what looks good on paper. How you relate, what you value, what makes you come alive, and who might genuinely bring out the best in you.

I pair that insight with an expansive network and an instinct for who should meet. Because sometimes the right person isn’t someone you would have found on your own.

3 Ways I Can Help You Find Your Person

Free · Open to all

Free Dating Network

Put yourself on my radar.

Create a private profile and I'll personally consider you for introductions with clients in my network.

Limited to 6 clients

Private Matchmaking

Let me do the looking.

I get to know you beyond the checklist, then search my network and beyond for people I believe are genuinely worth meeting. I work with just six matchmaking clients at a time so I can stay deeply involved in every search.

Applications open October 2026. Join the waitlist to be first to know.

One-on-one

Coaching

Sometimes you need a fresh set of eyes.

Bring your dating profile, a relationship pattern you're ready to change, or questions about someone you're currently dating. Together, we'll unpack what's happening beneath the surface so you leave with clarity, confidence, and a clear path forward.

About Veronica

Connection has always been my work.

Veronica Kaulinis, founder of Matchmaking by Veronica

I’m a born and raised New Yorker, naturally curious about people and rarely able to resist saying, “Wait, I know someone you should meet.”

I’ve spent most of my adult life bringing people together. Through hundreds of workshops, communities I’ve built, and years of traveling, I’ve met thousands of fascinating (and single) people.

Yet I always found myself thinking, “How are all these incredible people still single? And how do they not know each other?”

I’ve always had an instinct for remembering the person in one corner of my world who needs to meet someone in another. But my real strength isn’t simply knowing people. It’s seeing people.

For over seven years, my work has centered on intimacy, relationships, and what makes people truly connect. As the founder of Vulnerable AF™, a global workshop series, I’ve facilitated thousands of conversations and coached people through dating, communication, vulnerability, and the very human work of letting themselves be known.

Today, I bring all of that to matchmaking: a deep understanding of people, an expansive network, and an instinct for who should meet.

Events

Meet me in real life.

Check out upcoming curated dating events for relationship minded singles in New York City.

Come meet interesting people, see who catches your attention, and let me get to know you, too.

Next up

You Never Know August 25

You Never Know, a curated dating evening for singles in their 30s and 40s in New York City

Testimonials

Veronica is an incredibly gifted facilitator and thoughtful connector who guides people into the conversations their souls have been longing to have, with such ease and intention. I always leave her gatherings feeling more connected, to myself and to others, with genuine relationships, fresh perspective, and actionable next steps for my life.

Sara C.

Marketing Professional & Women's Intimacy Guide

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Notes on dating, love & matchmaking

Follow along for dating observations, relationship truths, and the occasional introduction to something worth knowing.

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Get in touch

Have a question? I’d love to hear from you.

Curious about matchmaking, wondering if we’d be a good fit, or want to learn more about working together? Send me a note.