Private Matchmaking · Opening October 2026

I do the searching, vetting, and introductions.

Private matchmaking for relationship minded singles who want a more personal, intentional way to meet someone.

I get to know you and what you're looking for, then personally search my Dating Network, referrals, communities, events, and beyond for people I believe are genuinely worth meeting.

NYC based · Working nationwide · Limited to 6 private clients

The process

How Private Matchmaking Works

01

Join the Waitlist

Tell me about yourself, your dating life, and the kind of relationship you're looking for. I'll personally review every application before consultations begin.

02

We Get to Know Each Other

If I believe we're a good fit, we'll schedule a private consultation to talk about your relationship goals, dating experiences, and what you're truly looking for.

03

I Begin the Search

Once I understand who you're looking for, I begin a personalized search through my Dating Network, personal network, referrals, communities, events, and beyond.

04

Intentional Introductions

Every introduction is someone I've personally taken the time to get to know and genuinely believe is worth introducing.

05

You Meet

I'll explain why I believe there's potential, coordinate the introduction, and help you prepare for the first date if you'd like.

06

We Refine Together

After every introduction, we'll reflect on what we learned and use those insights to continually refine the search.

Private Matchmaking · Opening October 2026

Ready to have me looking for you?

Join the waitlist to be considered for Private Matchmaking when consultations open.

Who are you looking to meet? *Select all that apply
What brings you to Private Matchmaking right now? *

No commitment. I'll personally review your submission and be in touch when consultations begin.

You've built a life you're proud of.

You've invested in your career, your friendships, and your personal growth. But finding the right relationship hasn't been as straightforward.

You've probably tried the apps, been set up by friends, or gone on more dates than you can count.

You're not looking for more dates. You're looking for someone who's truly worth building a life with.

What You Can Expect as a Client

An active search

I don't simply search a database. I actively search through my Dating Network, personal network, referrals, communities, events, and beyond to find people I genuinely believe are worth introducing.

Personally vetted introductions

Every introduction is someone I've personally taken the time to get to know. When I introduce someone, I'll also explain why I believe there's genuine potential.

Coaching and guidance

You'll have someone in your corner before, during, and after every introduction. Together we'll prepare, reflect, and continually refine the search.

Curated opportunities

Private clients may also receive invitations to curated dinners, gatherings, and select matchmaking events when I believe they're the right fit.

Veronica Kaulinis, matchmaker and founder of Matchmaking By Veronica

About Veronica

People often ask me what I look for when making a match.

The truth is, I'm not looking for someone who checks every box. I'm looking for the qualities that don't always show up on a dating profile. How someone communicates, what makes them feel safe, who brings out their confidence, curiosity, and playfulness, and the kind of relationship they want to build.

Over the years, I've built a network through communities, workshops, referrals, travel, events, and thousands of real life relationships. I've met incredible people from all walks of life, but I've learned that access alone isn't what makes someone a good matchmaker.

The value isn't simply knowing a lot of people. It's knowing who should meet.

That's why every introduction I make is personal, intentional, and grounded in a deep understanding of both people before they ever meet.

More about Veronica

Private matchmaking might be for you if...

  • You're looking for a serious, long term relationship, marriage, or someone to have a family with.
  • You're tired of spending time on dates that go nowhere.
  • You want quality introductions rather than more options.
  • You're open to meeting someone you may not have found on your own.
  • You value a discreet, highly personal process.
  • You're ready to be an active participant in finding the right relationship, not simply outsource your dating life.

Testimonials

Working with Veronica brought me a sense of inner alignment. Things I didn't understand, feelings, patterns in myself I didn't see clearly, now make a lot of sense. I have a better understanding of what I want out of a relationship, and what I shouldn't allow.

Gabriela C.

Previous Coaching Client

Veronica has an extraordinary gift for guiding people into the conversations their souls have been longing to have. She gently but powerfully dissolves the small talk in favor of depth, authenticity, and genuine human connection. As a facilitator, she's deeply intuitive, intentional, and masterful at helping people feel safe enough to be seen.

Sara C.

Marketing Professional, Mother & Intimacy Guide

She's fabulous. She'll tell you exactly what you need to hear, whether it's soft or not.

Krystine S.

Beauty Expert & Coach & Previous Coaching Client

Common questions

October 2026. I'm currently building the waitlist and will begin reaching out about consultations ahead of opening.

No. I'm based in New York City and work nationwide.

No. I work with a limited number of private clients so I can stay personally involved in every search. We'll first make sure working together feels like the right fit.

My Dating Network is one resource, but the search doesn't stop there. I also source through my personal network, referrals, communities, events, and targeted outreach.

Joining the Dating Network means you may be considered as a potential match for one of my private clients. As a Private Matchmaking client, I am actively searching on your behalf.

Private Matchmaking · Opening October 2026

If this feels like the way you want to meet someone, I'd love to hear from you.

I work with a small number of private clients at a time. The waitlist is simply where the conversation begins.